Small cheer and great welcome makes a merry feast.

William Shakespeare, The Comedy of Errors

I am a professional guest, that plus one invite to most holidays. I excel at all its prerequisites; I arrive on time, am hungry, and am never empty-handed. My host gift is in appreciation for their hospitality, thoughtfulness, and their rescue from dining home alone with my cats. My gift suits the occasion or future entertaining possibilities. They won’t clutter, can be enjoyed at the moment, or become classic keepers (or re-gifters. Circle of life.)

Below is my compiled shortlist for up-and-coming professionals. My experience is at your disposal, especially for you amateurs with down-to-the-wire RSVP responses.

Scented Candles:

Endless varieties, sizes, and price points. Select options with long burn times and soft, aromatic scents. Yankee Candle carries holiday favorites of Red Apple Wreath, Whipped Pumpkin Spice, and Be Thankful (a sweet, spicy fragrance.) For nature lovers, try the Autumn Nature Walk, Autumn Wreath, and Woodland Road trip.

Charcuterie Board Set:

Trendy and versatile, a typical Charcuterie board serves cured meats, cheeses, olives, dried fruits and nuts, and bread slices with spreadable toppings. Crate And Barrel offer charcuterie, cheese, and dessert boards for every taste.

Oil and Vinegar Sets:

Is your host quite the chef? Quality oils and vinegar are the perfect gifts. Used for cooking, dipping, and garnishing, these clever gift sets from Williams-Sonoma are always well received. 

Wine Stoppers and Veils:

For that particular host, gift the elegance of crystal. Wine accessories, such as decorative toppers and veils (along with a Thanksgiving pairing Pino Noir or Chardonnay,) are a sophisticated choice. Prices and styles vary. Things Remember can create a personal touch. Neiman Marcus has the perfect holiday bling. 

The most important gift is gratitude. A host’s joy, in itself, is celebrating with those they love. The perfect gift may be your appreciative warm embrace, kind words, and effervescent energy. 

To every wonderful host who tirelessly works to create the perfect Thanksgiving, your adoring guests say thank you!

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